It was almost 2 am when I decided to call my ex. We were talking about each others life. From the way he talked you can tell that he grew up. I was happy to know that. He told me about our friend who’s still in love with her ex but has a new bf, he told me what he had advised to her, his advice goes like this “Di mo naman kelangan ng ibang tao para makapag move-on ka, magiging unfair ka lang sa tao na un kung mahal mo pa din ung ex mo tapos kayo, magagawa mo namang mag move-on mag isa, para sa sarili mo din naman yan wag mong sabihin na di mo kaya, kaya mo naman yan di mo palang kasi ginagawa”
When I heard that, it stroked in my heart as if that advice was for me. He was right, he was definitely right. You don’t need to have someone new to help you; you can do it on your own, you can do it for yourself. It is too selfish to be on a relationship when you know that you don’t love your partner completely. You don’t need to pretend, all you need is to try it on your own. Isn’t nice to start a new relationship when you know that you’re giving your 100% love? Rebound relationships will only cause pain. You can’t move forward if you will not let go of your past. You can’t love completely if you still don’t want to let go of your feelings for your ex. It is your choice, wait until you’re able to love someone completely? or be on a relationship and push yourself to pretend? Be real or be a pretender? be single or be in a rebound relationship? Just remember, it is your heart that will decide for what you feels not your mind. It is your heart that feels it. Maybe you can cheat on others but not on your own heart.
–my choice is to be single until I’ve totally move-on. I know I can do it for myself even though I don’t know how long it will take. I can make it on my own
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“Di mo naman kelangan ng ibang tao para makapag move-on ka, magiging unfair ka lang sa tao na un kung mahal mo pa din ung ex mo tapos kayo, magagawa mo namang mag move-on mag isa, para sa sarili mo din naman yan wag mong sabihin na di mo kaya, kaya mo naman yan di mo palang kasi ginagawa” << Good Quote. I Like It.. -Tim
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ryt! ive walked on the same road too.. forgetting som1 is so hard but hurting som1 along the way is much harder, kea from the start dapat tumayo na tau sa sarili nating mga paa.. and dont be too attached kaht ganoh mo pa xa kalove.. dapt u have your own life pa din.. super nice n2ng blog na toh.. I LOVE IT! GO EDHEN! kaya mo yan.. im always here 4 u!
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